You don’t have to match outfits when you come in for a family portrait, but coordinating on tone, style or colour really helps to tie the finished image together.

A family of mum, dad and two children all wearing blue jeans and white tops

This family went for the classic white tops and blue jeans look, and it’s a classic for a reason. It’s simple, it works, and it doesn’t date. I’d recommend avoiding anything heavily patterned or with large logos – those things tend to draw the eye and can make the images feel more tied to a particular moment in time than you’d want.

On that note, I’d also generally recommend long sleeves. The human eye naturally searches for skin tones in an image, and bare arms can pull focus away from faces and expressions. That sounds a bit Victorian written down – I’m not suggesting you arrive head to toe in tweed – but it genuinely is just about keeping the focus where it matters.

When it comes to posing, we’ll usually work through a variety of set-ups from standing to sitting, and occasionally lying down, so it’s also worth wearing something long enough that you can sit comfortably without worrying about what you’re revealing. Yes, that also sounds Victorian. It’s just practical.

Shoes come off in the studio as a rule, so you can go with socks or bare feet – entirely up to you. And if you need an excuse for a pedicure or a manicure before you come in, feel free to use this as one. Your hands will definitely be in the photos.

Everything You Need to Know About Family Photography

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Family Portrait Photography in East Grinstead

Family photos don’t need to feel formal or stressful. The best ones come from real moments, natural connection, and a relaxed space where everyone can just be themselves.

Whether your children are full of energy, a little shy, or somewhere in between, I’ll gently guide the session so it feels easy and unforced.

If you’ve been meaning to update your family photos, this is your moment.