Crying is how babies communicate, and most parents quickly get familiar with the obvious reasons. Hungry, tired, uncomfortable, wanting a cuddle. But there are times when you’ve worked through the whole checklist and baby is still upset, and that’s when it helps to think about some of the less obvious causes.

Here are five reasons babies cry that often catch parents off guard.

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Wind Hurts

This one comes up a lot in the studio. Trapped wind is genuinely uncomfortable for a young baby, and a big, unsettled cry is often baby’s way of saying they need help releasing it. A good burp after a feed, a gentle tummy massage, or bicycle legs can all make a real difference. If baby is fussing shortly after feeding, wind is usually one of the first things worth trying.

Sore Gums

Teething gets a lot of blame, but what surprises many parents is how early the discomfort can start. Gums can begin to feel sore months before the first tooth actually breaks through. If baby is drooling more than usual, chewing on anything they can get their hands on, and crying without an obvious cause, sore gums are a very likely explanation. A cool teether or a gentle gum massage can help.

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Boredom

It sounds unlikely for something so small, but babies genuinely crave stimulation. If they’ve been lying in the same spot looking at the same ceiling for too long, they’ll let you know. A change of scene, a different position, a new toy to look at, or even a walk to look out of a window can be enough to shift the mood entirely. Sometimes all they need is something new to take in.

They Feel What You Feel

Babies are far more tuned in to the people around them than most people realise. They pick up on tone of voice, on tension in the body, and on the general atmosphere in the room. If you’re having a difficult day and you’re running on empty, baby can often sense it and respond to it. This isn’t something to feel guilty about. It’s just worth knowing that a calm cuddle helps you both settle, not just them.

If you’re in the middle of a stretch where nothing seems to work, remember that this stage does pass. And if you’re ever concerned about your baby’s crying, your health visitor or GP is always the right person to speak to.

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