Worries & What-Ifs – Your Newborn Session Questions Answered

When you come to visit me for your newborn session, I don’t want you to worry about a thing.

These sessions are designed to be calm, gentle, and completely baby-led — there’s no pressure, no rush, and no expectation for your little one to behave in any particular way. I know there are often a few worries that sit quietly in the back of your mind, so I wanted to answer some of the most common ‘what ifs’ I hear, to help put your mind at ease before you even step through the door.

1. What if my newborn cries?

It’s completely normal to worry about how your newborn will behave during their photo shoot — especially about crying. But the good news is that I plan your session around your baby, not the other way around.

There’s always time for cuddles, feeds, and settling breaks whenever they’re needed. I’ll never rush you, and I’ll never expect your baby to perform on cue. Crying is simply how they communicate, and we work with that gently and patiently throughout your session.

Your baby’s comfort always comes first, and with a calm, flexible approach, we’ll still create beautiful images that feel relaxed and natural.

2. What if they poo or wee during the shoot?

Honestly? It happens all the time! It’s completely normal for newborns to have little accidents during a session — especially when they’re snuggled up without a nappy for some of the photos.

I’m very used to it, and it’s nothing to feel embarrassed about. I keep plenty of wipes and cloths on hand, and we just clean up and carry on. It’s all part of working with tiny humans, and absolutely nothing to worry about.  Everything in the studio is washable, including me!

3. What if they won’t sleep?

Newborn sessions aren’t about forcing your baby to sleep on cue. Some babies drift off quickly, and some are just curious about the world around them — both are absolutely fine.

I work gently to keep the environment calm and cosy, with plenty of time for feeds and settling. If your baby is awake, I adjust the poses to keep them comfortable and safe. Whether they’re asleep or awake, we’ll still create beautiful images that celebrate this special time.

4. What if I don’t feel camera ready?

I know that being photographed might not be top of your list right after having a baby — and you absolutely don’t have to be in the pictures if you don’t want to.

But if you do want to be included but aren’t feeling camera ready, there are still plenty of ways to make it work. Close-up details of hands, holding your baby safely and lovingly, soft-focus shots that feel natural and flattering — no pressure, just gentle options.  You’re welcome to decide on the day how involved you want to be. My job is to make you feel comfortable and supported, whatever you choose.

5. What if their sibling doesn’t want to join in?

Working with toddlers and older siblings is all about going with the flow! Sometimes little ones are excited to join in, and sometimes they’re just not feeling it — and that’s perfectly normal.

I have lots of gentle ways to encourage sibling involvement without pressure. We keep things playful, relaxed, and fun. And if a sibling really doesn’t want to take part, that’s OK too — we work with what we have on the day.  Plus you have a lifetime of sibling photos ahead of you so if we don’t get it on session one, we’ll get it another time.